26 and Transformation

Hello lovely ladies and gents,

First i would like to dedicate this blog to all those who are happily celebrating their 26th birthday. Let us be positive about the negatives that comes as a birthday gift from this age. Interestingly this my first post and this same number 26 provoked me to write this for you:)

Sometimes you have to totally depend on others for even the smallest matter and everything can go out of control. It is a part of life to teach you how to be humble, tolerant and patient.

Life is cool until everything is fine and you can go back to sleep just to dream how thrilling your next birthday would be. But what if you lost the thrill of  the next year just because of the word ‘CHANGE’ . Aren’t you afraid of it?

Suddenly everything goes out of control. Yes, everything. And you no longer hold any influence on people, work, partner, studies etc…Nothing works as per your wish. Because you are holding to a choice that might seem to upset your parents or partners or teachers or employers. Do you care? no more but you REBEL.

You REBEL because you are slowly being introduced to CHANGE .You REBEL because change comes in to your life slowly but surely.It is going to change your perspective about your life, how you see your role in it, what you want and what matters the most.

In a course of time, you seem to be lost in a world where your upbringings or your roots collide with the experiences you have gained all these years. And this is the time you ignore anything or anybody who opposes your decisions.

Are you sure you have come to a decision? no. Because you are afraid that this new sense of freedom to take your own decision has left you with some sort of responsibility. In fact a huge responsibility that seems bitter and you are lazy about it. If you don’t like your work or your employer and if you decide to start a business the responsibility is yours. If that doesn’t work do not rebel yourself but bring in the changes to make it work.

To transform is to change completely. You shouldn’t be afraid of it. Only then you can bring out your true identity of who you are and let the world know you are a different person with different set of values. To transform yourself, you need to break away from your parental and institutional ties, relationship ties, social and economical ties, spiritual and religious ties etc…if necessary. Something dies and something starts every now and then.

All you need for this transformation to happen is patience. Remember all those sleepless nights, fights, arguments, stress, anxiety, confusions, indecisions, addictions, low confidence, grief, guilt, failures will fade away if you are patient.

From all this darkness you will see the light if you are ready for the CHANGE that causes you to rebel every time.

It is very common at this age 26.

When you embrace change and try to transform yourself,  you get back all the confidence .You can take care of everything and you have mastered the art of life. HAPPY BIRTHDAY:)

More interested on your experiences about crossing this age 26. Delighted to see all your comments below.